Dating - Smoothly Exchanging Telephone Numbers-Dream Girls

In this article I wanted to share some basics on how to smoothly exchange telephone numbers with someone you just met.

Please go out and use this for free and enjoy it because I have many more variations and ideas. Since this Spring (I am in NYC, New York, yet regardless of where you are enjoy using this great technique) I have created a lot of creative variations and updates I felt like sharing this more basic version to help people in their dating and social life, everywhere.

SETTING: You have already gotten to the point in the interaction where you are about to exchange telephone numbers. (Best after you have both laughed a few times together)

You take out your Cell phone (Casually) and hand it to them.

“Hey, you seem pretty cool.” (look at her and pause)

“We should hang out. Here, put your number in.”

(Now, slowly hand the person your Cell phone)

Now here is the time where it may feel like an eternity! So practice feeling totally calm and relaxed and breath deeply and let your body language be relaxed. You can imagine a wave of relaxation flowing through your body and energy flowing down your legs helping you to feel grounded and more in control.

At this point the person will usually put their number into your cell phone and then you can either save it or you can be more creative (I use creative variations to this basic idea that I find help improve the results even more, however, this basic template is VERY good at getting you telephone numbers) .

As they take your phone you can tease them and do some NLP techniques and a bit of a take away.

Variation “Hey, you’re not going to try to steal my phone are you?” (said calmly, in a very humorous way as if you are going to take the phone back again before they enter their telephone number. This is a good way to test how interested they are in you.)

“Going once, (pause and smile as if this is a limited time offer or this offer will go to the highest bidder)

“Going twice” Smile and wait confidently and for more variations and ideas you can use your imagination or contact me for more details. This basic method of smoothly exchanging telephone numbers is really all you need.

Enjoy, Michael Twomey

P.s. Although the creative, humorous variations are best suited for dating and socializing, I find the best way to really learn this technique is to use it everywhere in your life, including in Business. Simply follow the steps and then store the # or send it and this way the other contact has your number as well and it saves time with fumbling.